Obituary of James Arthur Gray, Sr.

James Arthur Gray Sr. ("Gray"), a man of unmatched strength, kindness, and dedication, passed away on November 3, 2024, at the age of 67, surrounded by his loved ones. Born on March 2, 1957, to Ellis and Edith Gray, Jim lived a life marked by resilience and compassion, leaving a profound impact on all who knew him.

Gray was a beloved husband to Kathy Gray, with whom he shared a remarkable 48 years of marriage. Together, they built a beautiful family, raising two sons: James Jr., married to Jennifer, and Bryan, married to Nicole. His pride and joy extended to his four cherished grandchildren—Sophie, Josie, Nathan, and Nolan—who were blessed to know his love and gentle spirit.

One of the strongest people many had ever met, Gray bravely overcame multiple battles with cancer and inspired all with his perseverance and courage. Beyond his strength, he was known for his kindness. Even when he had little, he ensured anyone in need was cared for, often giving selflessly to others. His generous heart was a gift to everyone he encountered; he truly would have given you the shirt off his back.

Gray enjoyed the simple pleasures of life, spending countless hours fishing, working down the body shop, and above all, making memories with his grandchildren, who brought him endless joy. He dedicated over 30 years to a career with Amtrak, where he formed lasting friendships and left a legacy of hard work and loyalty. He retired in 2017, ready to embrace the quiet joys of life, particularly the cherished moments spent at the family’s beloved beach house in Rehoboth, affectionately called the GGBH. The beach was his sanctuary, a place where he could relax, surrounded by family and the soothing sound of the ocean.

His strength, generosity, and unwavering love for his family will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. Gray will be deeply missed, but his legacy of kindness and resilience will never be forgotten.

Family

He is survived by his wife, Kathy Gray; sons, James Gray Jr. (Jennifer) and Bryan Gray (Nicole); and grandchildren, Sophie, Josie, Nathan, and Nolan. He is also survived by his brother, Jerry Gray (Anita); sister, Connie McCorkle (Ken); and other beloved family members and friends. He was preceded in death by his parents, Ellis and Edith Gray, and his brother, Frank Gray (Carol).

Visitation: Monday, November 11th after 10:00AM at the Minshall Shropshire-Bleyler Funeral Home, Middletown (Rte. #352) & Knowlton Rds., Middletown Twp., Media, PA 19063.

Family and Friends Sharing: Monday, November 11th at 11:30AM at the funeral home.

Interment: Private.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you please consider making a donation to Give Kids The World https://www.gktw.org